For Journey + Leisure’s column Touring As, we’re speaking to vacationers about what it’s prefer to discover the world by way of their distinctive views. We chatted with Sandy Hazelip and Ellie Hamby, two 82-year-old single nice grandmothers, who journey across the globe along with an infectious, optimistic spirit. Their adventures shall be documented in a Penguin Random Home e book known as “Completely happy Place,” out subsequent yr.
Sandy Hazelip: I grew up in Fort Value, Texas, in a really modest household and obtained married after I was nearly 20 years previous to a beautiful particular person. Our son developed diabetes when he was a child, so I turned curious about studying about drugs. After I was 34 years previous, I informed my husband I wished to go to varsity to turn out to be a health care provider. From day one, he was my cheerleader. I began medical faculty after I was 39 and opened my observe in 1985.
Then, my husband died in 1999. However earlier than he turned sick, he talked about we should always take our grandchildren on mission journeys. Six months after he handed, a younger doctor informed me he was going to be at a medical missions workshop the next weekend in Dallas. I went and met Ellie Hamby and her husband, who had been the administrators of the Zambia Medical Mission. I began happening the mission and Ellie and I turned good associates.
Ellie Hamby: I grew up as a farm lady in Oklahoma and lived in a really small city till I completed highschool. I obtained married after which went off to varsity. My husband was a professor at Abilene Christian College. We wound up going to Zambia and lived there for six years within the Nineteen Eighties. Once we got here again to the college, we had been approached about directing a medical mission.
Neither one in every of us had been medical [professionals], however I’ve been recognized to arrange all the things all of my life. We began organizing a medical mission to Zambia within the Nineties. It is one of many world’s largest medical missions, and I am nonetheless directing it. We see 2,000 to three,000 sufferers a day over six days every week on the clinic. Sandy’s been one of many medical medical doctors, going each different yr for the final 20-something years.
About 5 years after Sandy’s husband handed away, my husband handed away in a tennis accident. Sandy known as me a few month after. I used to be nonetheless adjusting to his sudden loss of life. She mentioned, ‘I am transferring my medical observe to Abilene and I don’t wish to go away my dwelling in Eastland, so I would like a mattress a few nights every week. For those who would give me a mattress, I am going to take you out to eat.’
That was 19 years in the past. Besides once we’re on journeys, she’s usually at my home one or two nights every week. We stayed up late, drank espresso, and began realizing we love to do issues alike. Our friendship developed out of two horrible tragedies, nevertheless it was a good looking factor as a result of tragedy hits all of us. That does not imply your life is over. We each had phenomenal husbands. We cherished them dearly. However we did develop this nice friendship.
Our outlook on life is analogous: We’re very comfortable folks, we consider within the goodness of humanity, and we’re not scared to strive new issues.
I had already completed fairly a little bit of touring, having been to about 115 nations.
About three years after Sandy began staying at my home, we took our first journey collectively in 2008. We went on the Trans-Siberian Railway — not the vacationer prepare. We went on the second-class folks’s prepare all the best way.
Hazelip: Our third journey collectively was in 2011 — we had been in Syria when the warfare broke out.
Hamby: We had been sleeping in a Bedouin tent in Palmyra within the Syrian desert. We had already been all by way of Syria on public buses — two 72-year-old girls with backpacks.
The issue was that there have been no vacationers in Palmyra and we had been headed to Jordan, however we hadn’t paid the resort and there have been no ATMs within the metropolis, nor did they take bank cards. Mohammad on the resort organized all the things for us — his mom cooked us a beautiful meal that evening and he organized for us to go together with a driver to Damascus about 5 hours away.
We obtained there and the entire plaza was lined with the army holding AK-47s. Our driver went as much as them and should have mentioned these two previous girls must get money out of an ATM. They put down their weapons. We prayed there could be cash — and there was. Then, Mohammad informed us to get in a white unmarked automobile on the aspect of the street to take us to Jordan — and it did. So, we already had some wild experiences.
Hazelip: We’re sufficiently old to recollect the film and e book, “Across the World in 80 Days,” so two or three years previous to turning 80, I mentioned to Ellie, ‘Why don’t we go world wide in 80 days once we’re 80?’
Hamby: My first response was, ‘What?!’ About 30 seconds later, ‘Why not?’ We informed our household and associates. I believe most of them felt like it might by no means occur. It’s a reasonably daunting factor, and we did not notice simply how daunting it was till we accomplished it and obtained all this recognition.
We used the Oneworld Alliance Around the World fare, which is nice. You must go to 6 continents and it provides you 16 flight segments. You circumnavigate the world in a single path. That made it useful and saved us cash.
Hazelip: You can also make your individual itinerary — simply observe their guidelines. Once we obtained to a rustic and wished to see extra issues, we might use our airline miles and fly to these different locations. Sometimes, we had to purchase a ticket. Our common resort room for the entire 80 days was $29 an individual per evening — and that normally included breakfast.
Hamby: Our greatest discount was $13.50 on the Royal Pyramids Inn in Cairo. We needed to enter by way of an alley, however once we obtained to the rooftop, there have been the pyramids. After which the lights present at evening — we watched it totally free.
Hazelip: When different girls say they might like to make a journey with us, the very first thing I do is take a look at their palms. If they’ve well-manicured fingernails, they most likely do not wish to journey with us.
Hamby: We do not have a journey agent. We e book each resort ourselves; we e book our flights, and when now we have an issue, now we have to resolve it as a result of there is no one we are able to name. And we haven’t any males carrying our baggage.
Hazelip: We had initially deliberate to go on our Across the World journey once we had been 80, however COVID shut it down, so we went once we had been 81, and our theme was…
Hazelip and Hamby: All over the world in 80 days at 81 and nonetheless on the run.
Hamby: We began in Antarctica. It is some of the awe-inspiring locations to set foot on on the earth. To face there and do a 360 round you — what you see is simply past perception. The immenseness of the Antarctic, the ice mountains, the icebergs, the water, penguins all over the place — it is unbelievable.
Hazelip: Then, we had been within the Arctic Circle. We had a driver in Rovaniemi in Finnish Lapland. Sooner or later he mentioned, ‘Would you love to do a husky sleigh journey right now?’ I assumed it was going to be some tiny journey like on the Texas truthful, so we mentioned certain.
Hamby: He had an entire pack of huskies. We went for 4 miles by way of the forest, turning sharp corners and holding on for pricey life. And it was minus 4 levels.
Hazelip: We obtained again and mentioned, ‘Wow, that was enjoyable!’ One other day, he requested if we wished to see the reindeer farm. Seems, it was his household’s farm the place he grew up, and we obtained to feed the reindeer.
Hamby: Sandy and I do not usually plan. Issues simply form of occur. We actually depend on locals to arrange issues for us. In Bali, for instance, we obtained a driver for $50 for eight hours. Once we noticed one thing we wished to do, we might do it. We noticed this signal that mentioned, ‘Completely happy Swing,’ so he turned again. They had been probably the most enjoyable swings over rice paddies.
Hazelip: On the finish, we mentioned we didn’t go on a trip — folks get drained after they go on trip. We went on an journey and each journey simply ramped us up for the following one.
Ellie discovered a saying that I completely love: ‘The world is a e book and he who doesn’t journey solely reads one web page.’
One of many world wonders we had deliberate to see on the journey was Machu Picchu, however the political unrest shut it down. Ellie and I are everlasting optimists. We had been certain by the point we obtained there, it might be over. Three days earlier than our flight was scheduled to Peru, we needed to make the choice to cancel that.
So, this yr, we are actually in South America with Machu Picchu being the final place we cease. We’re having a beautiful time and our new theme is…
Hazelip and Hamby: We’re 82 and we’re not by way of.
Hamby: We’re up in La Paz, Bolivia, at greater than 12,000 toes. We climbed within the Valley of the Moon the opposite day and an entire group of Bolivians applauded once we obtained all the best way to the highest.
On this journey, we fished for piranhas within the Amazon. I caught three, however Sandy caught the most important one. We ate it that evening in piranha stew, which was fairly good. We additionally went alligator searching — and caught two. I went swimming with pink dolphins within the Amazon. We’re not afraid to enterprise out.
Hazelip: We’re not afraid to have enjoyable.
Hamby: Additionally, in your data, between Sandy and I, now we have 4 synthetic knees. These issues occur to all of us as we grow old, and also you’ve set to work exhausting, do bodily remedy, and keep optimistic.
Hazelip: Ellie’s household is accustomed to her wild travels. My household is attempting to get used to it. I promise I’ll ship them textual content messages each day. I allow them to know we’re protected.
Hamby: In our planning, there are some issues our children needn’t know. They did not must know we had been going piranha fishing, for instance. Why would we inform them and have them freak out? They’ll discover out later after they see photos of the piranha we caught.
We’ll hold touring so long as we are able to — and we are able to give you sayings. We don’t have one for 83 and 84, however for 85, it will likely be “We’re 85 and nonetheless alive.”
We hope to have the ability to journey so long as our well being holds out. Up to now, we’re high quality, however we all know we’re getting older and there is going to be a time we will not. We do not let age decide what we wish to do. We’re fearless vacationers, we do not like nightlife, and we’re not on the lookout for males. We’re simply two single girls having an journey.
Hazelip: We have now one fantastic journey after one other each single day.
Hamby: The language of South America has been a bit trickier than most, however Sandy and I say there’s one common language, and that is a smile. We use that over and time and again.